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    Retreat arrangements copyright 2007 Robert Henry


    OK, so you don't have 40 acres on a mountain in Idaho, or 20 acres in the swamps of southern Georgia, you live in the suburbs and your convinced that you must stay there. What to do?

    First and foremost I'd be amiss if I didn't call "bravo sierra" on the fact that you "have" to stay in the suburbs. In case you didn't get the memo, "bravo sierra" stands for BS.

    I'm convinced that ANYONE serious enough can make it out of the suburbs/city and move to the country, usually within 6 months IF motivated enough. Some want it bad enough, most don't however.

    So let's consider some Retreat Arrangements other than living full time at your retreat.

    First off, let's consider the absentee owner route. This is where you own a retreat property in a safe area as well as maintaining a "normal" residence in suburbia.

    The high costs involved with keeping up essentially two households usually becomes overwhelming for the average survivalist. Even a modest cabin with 2 acres can set one back $10-20,000. in some areas of the country now a days. We won't even consider the costs of property taxes, mowing, general upkeep, etc.

    Another disadvantage is the fact that it's highly likely that a lone unoccupied residence will be broken into, sometimes repeatedly. We have some neighbors in our area that purchased a house here but remained in another state. The house was repeatedly broken into. So much so the wife would come up unexpectedly, hide her vehicle and sit in the house with a rifle and the lights off! She was determined to catch whoever was breaking in.

    For them the theft of items was a nuisance. If you are depending on having key items in place and you arrive at your retreat to find them gone, it may cause you slightly more discomfort. Especially if you only become aware of the loss when the items are truly needed.

    With absentee ownership there is also the real possibility that you will arrive to find your retreat already occupied. Serious thought, planning and preparation should be given to how you would have to re-take it. Some would argue that you could hire a "caretaker" to live on the property and watch over it while you are away. I would argue that there is a 90% chance that your "caretaker" will not take too kindly to being booted out when the time comes for you to occupy the retreat. The mere implications of bringing the proverbial "wrong person" with him to your property could wreck your security for years to come.

    Probably the biggest factor against this sort of retreat arrangement would be the experience factor. Living at your retreat full time teaches you an immense amount of information that you will not get with monthly or even every weekend trips.

    When we left Florida in November of 1999 I honestly felt pretty confident in my ability to raise food. I had raised rabbits and chickens in my backyard in suburbia, had a small garden, etc. I had read, studied and consumed hundreds of books on growing food, raising animals, ponds and orchards.

    In retrospect, I didn't have a clue!!!

    I realize now that I was waaaaay behind the learning curve for most subjects dealing with true long term survival. Sure I had plenty of food storage, which could have given me a lot of time to learn, however I likely would not have had specific items I needed, time to develop soil, or even just the correct varieties of fruit trees that would produce in my area. I really do pity the folks that think homesteading will be a "piece of cake." I would highly suggest that if you do not have credible, real life, year to year experience growing 50% or more of what you currently eat yourself, that you absolutely forget the notion of a 1 year supply and works towards a 2 year and preferably a 3 year supply.

    Having this much food storage will be a "cushion" to allow you time to develop the skills to raise your own food.

    The only way I would advise the "absentee" ownership move would be if you have a short time frame- less than a year- until you can and will actually move to your retreat. At the very least your going to have to start thinking outside the box, using a lot of psy-ops techniques and do a good amount of midnight gardening in you choose absentee ownership.

    One other possible retreat arrangement would be the group retreat.

    I've spent a lot of time and bandwidth in previous blogs going over how and why this type of thing usually does not work. Suffice to say in my encounters with literally thousands of survivalists over the last 20 years, I've seen a total of 1 of these types of arrangements that worked. The reason it worked? The group was already a "group" before it purchased the land. Common bonds were formed decades before, it was essentially one big family. Meeting JoeBob and Cleetus on the net and making this work with them is pretty much an impossibility. Getting financially knit together with people you do not know well is never a good idea.

    Other arrangements-

    Occasionally in corresponding with and consulting with like minded folks I met survivalists that have already made the move out of the cities. It's not uncommon for them to realize the need for a group of people to depend on- a retreat group or survival group- to up there own chances of survival. It doesn't take much time to figure out that a lone family will not have the manpower to post a 24/7 security, let alone all the skill sets necessary for long term survival. Many times I had advocated to these rural survivalists that they network and develop a retreat group for the purpose of having extra folks for help and security at their retreat when the time comes. If done correctly, this sort of arrangement can be beneficial to both parties.

    The city bound survivalist now has a bug out location or run to spot where he can escape to in time of trouble. The country bound survivalist now has extra help around for security, food production efforts, etc.

    Of all the "group" retreat arrangements I've seen, this type is the one that usually works best and makes it long term.

    There are some serious disadvantages to this. First and foremost the country survivalist must be VERY careful in selection of prospects. You are potentially going to be living around- if not directly with- these people for a long period of time. If you can't stand to be around Jimmy for a weekend, guess what, he's going to be impossible to be around for an extended period of time.

    Herein lies the problem- most people will "fake it" during the first initial meetings. Children will be warned to be on there best behavior. What happens when you commit to them and then find out there is serious family issues? To me, time is the only factor that's going to allow these things to be seen. You may see some warning signals during the first initial meetings. It would be wise to use caution and take your time if and when these signals arise.

    Be ready to communicate effectively. I've advocated for years a list of requirements for a group. This doesn't have to have specific information that isn't pertinent or could cause OPSEC problems. A general guideline of "what's expected" should be the general theme. This will likely have to be revised from time to time. If you just talk about these things someone can always claim "I don't remember talking about that." If you have it in written form AND discuss it, there should be none of that. Well at the very least, you can always refer them to the list of guidelines.

    Just what sort of things should you lay out?

    *What's required for group participation- This should include all time requirements (i.e, we meet one weekend ever other month) as well as all monetary requirements (i.e, each group member is required to pay $50.00 per person per year to help cover the costs of materials for training events). Gear and supply requirements should also be laid out succinctly (i.e, by the end of the first year with the group a member should have X amount of food, 2,000 rounds of ammunition and Requirements A through C on the gear list completed).

    * Unacceptable behavior amongst the group- here's where I'll probably lose most people. Some will say that this is being dictatorial, that you "can't legislate ethics", etc.

    Both statements are true to an extent.

    Let me be blunt and painfully honest- some folks just don't know how to act now a days. Experience with most people now a days clearly is in line with how the apostle Paul described how people would be in the end times. To surmise; selfish, worldly POS's (my description, not Paul's). To think that anyone is better than this without firsthand long term experience with them is simply naive.

    There was a reason the Lord Himself taught the "golden rule."

    Basically if you can't stand to be around anyone that spits, then you aren't going to make it in a group of folks that chew. If you can't stand lying, then you aren't going to make it around a group of liberals :)

    Again, the reasoning behind laying out what is and isn't acceptable in this realm is the fact that you may very well be living with, near or amongst these people for an extended period of time if TS ever does HTF.

    Are blowups gonna happen? Yes of course. Are people going to get irritable and upset with one another? Yes of course. It's how this is handled during and after the fact that needs to be addressed. The last thing you want is someone harboring resentment against you for a long period of time for eating the last twinkie in the box. Be slow to speak, quick to listen and ready to forgive. When you are forgiven, be ready to do the same next time.

    Really a group situation is no different than any family organization. Like most families, sometimes things "come to a head." Above all it needs to be brought up, dwelt with and forgiveness given. Sweeping it under the rug, accepting bad behavior or just ignoring it is NEVER the answer and will send a wrong signal to the perpetrator.

    Hope this helps.
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    "Don't be too proud of this technological terror you've constructed..."

  • #2
    Good Post!
    This really makes you think about how to deal with our friends and neighbors in a trying time.

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    • #3
      Great post! I am already working on a home group and some folks I know are jokingly talking about collectively purchasing a few hundred acres and starting our own commune.

      The joke is now looking more and more realistic. Folks are serious about teaming up with like minded folks.

      PS, I know fiction is fiction... but we are looking at the Tri-States philosophy and Home Base one from some old William Johnstone's fiction. It just makes sense.

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      • #4
        Reading these posts is overwhelming. Both my hubby and myself have been on the same page with this for a couple of years now and don't really know anyone else who thinks the same way. We live in a subdivision in SE MI about 25 miles out of Detroit. Definitely not the place to be. UGH! Although we've done a lot of prepping, security is not good. These posts really hit that home.

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        • #5
          Originally posted by Waiting View Post
          Reading these posts is overwhelming. Both my hubby and myself have been on the same page with this for a couple of years now and don't really know anyone else who thinks the same way. We live in a subdivision in SE MI about 25 miles out of Detroit. Definitely not the place to be. UGH! Although we've done a lot of prepping, security is not good. These posts really hit that home.
          There are folks in Michigan who prep and are concerned :) just have to get past all the "militia" hype and gov scare tactics to find them.

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          • #6
            Originally posted by Waiting View Post
            Reading these posts is overwhelming. Both my hubby and myself have been on the same page with this for a couple of years now and don't really know anyone else who thinks the same way. We live in a subdivision in SE MI about 25 miles out of Detroit. Definitely not the place to be. UGH! Although we've done a lot of prepping, security is not good. These posts really hit that home.

            this is why it is important the network in your area by anymeans you can. Internet forum camp outs,meet and greets etc. It sucks, becuase you have to take your chances on who will show up, but from what i have seen the good outweighs the bad.
            Hey Petunia...you dropped your man pad!

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            • #7
              I live in both Florida and Alabama. I have both of my homes for sale for the simple reason I want to find a "retreat". It's somewhat discouraging to have the housing report come out and say the housing market is down 27%, and that a significant number of homes that did sell, were in foreclosure. So, I guess I'll cross my fingers and hope.

              Anyway, if I absolutely had to pick one of them it would be Florida because it's an acre on the water with gulf access. At least I could fish.

              As far as forming a group, I have trust issues with that. Forming a group would take years. Another consideration is that "he who has the gold, rules". i.e. the person with most of the resources can dictate to everyone else. Even in families, there would be issues.

              Right now my focus is on self reliance. Except on the forums and with my sister, I am mute when it comes to my preps. Except for the forums, no one else knows I am prepping. I even try to cover up all those buckets in the garage in case someone notices.

              This is a serious issue. Hungry people will kill you for your preps.

              I only home my homes sell soon.

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              • #8
                I thought of moving to the shore and using fishing as an alternate survival food source, but then I brainstormed it and decided no.

                Pro: plenty of food left in the ocean to survive on (minus the veggies-one cant live on meat protein alone)

                Con: everytime I boat out, I am on a big flat area that provides NO CONCEALMENT... Hmmm that means visibile from miles away.... that means someone can find out where I am hiding my stash and family... that means it would be impossible to get back to my family if they were attacked when I was out fishing... that means if I took my family with me our stash would be completely unsafe from pilferage...

                so I ultimately decided against ocean fishing, for now atleast, as a means of providing subsistence....

                just my two copper pieces...

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                • #9
                  Talking about this subject on another forum recently these thoughts came up so I decided to add them here also:

                  *It's important to consider what BENEFIT the landowner is getting out of the potential of you showing up there when the time comes.

                  This is often the "pink elephant" in the room that no one wants to think about. It's more than "what you bring to the table."

                  "Well the landowner gets additional help there for security, for crops, etc." is the most logical answer right?

                  Well what if you've made no or little provisions for yourself at the retreat? OK you left (read: pretty much abandoned) a little bit of some old food storage there maybe a decade or more ago. That's not what I'm talking about.

                  Have you really thought through and WORKED THROUGH the implications of life for you AND your family living there full time if something does happen? Have you made provisions such as separate living quarters? What about the little comfort items for the family members that need them? Be truthful here, don't play the BS'er, we ALL need them. And I'm talking about much more than running water and power.

                  What about social interaction? If your family or family members are ambivalent or even hostile to your survival intentions, they ARE going to cause problems for everyone when something happens. Have you done ANYTHING to work through this? Do NOT just assume that people that are hostile to this, neutral, don't understand it, etc. are going to suddenly "rise to the occasion" if something happens. THEY WON'T, I'VE SEEN IT. And if they have no or very little -for lack of a better term- "emotional bank account" build up with the others in the group, that's going to deeply exasperate the problem.

                  If I know Joe, he's went out of his way to be helpful and he's a true friend, I'll forgive him when he's "having a bad day" is sick, slacks off one day, etc. Why? Cause he's PROVEN HIMSELF to not always be that way. He's also proven to be useful. Now it's helpful when Joe is having that "bad day" for Joe to have his own little area to go to, even if it's just to sit and read a book during non work time. And yes, EVERYONE is expected to work. This is NOT a vacation....

                  Also, consider what is benefiting the land owner NOW? "Well he's got all that old food I ditched... I mean stored carefully up there just a few weeks (Years and years) ago that I check on regularly (looked at once in 15 years),, so he could use that if need be." Reality, he doesn't need your old crap.

                  So what's the benefit? Have you thought about that?
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                  www.survivalreportpodcast.com

                  "Don't be too proud of this technological terror you've constructed..."

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                  • #10
                    Often times the "usefulness" of one member is negated partially and/or totally by disruptive, disagreeable or disrespectful family members of theirs.

                    Again, another "pink elephant" that no one wants to openly admit, but you are judged like this-

                    "Well Ted is a +1 most of time. But his wife has done absolutely nothing to help ever, nor has she ever made an attempt to fit in, try to get the know the other women folks and worse than that, does the "I'm better than you" attitude every time she has been seen by the others. That's a MINUS 1. Ted also seems to be hindered by her in that regard, another MINUS 1. Their kids are out of control, don't listen to the parents are constantly breaking stuff and completely unruly. That's a MINUS 2"

                    So Ted, who probably fancies himself as being "beneficial" to the group for whatever he has dreamed up, really is a BURDEN to the group because of his lack of leadership of his family.

                    How will this likely play out if something does happen? Are Ted's kids finally going to listen, not scream, piss everyone off and be disrespectful? Most likely not. Is Ted's wife suddenly going to submit to her husband? Probably not.

                    You see my friend's, their is so much more to consider than simply ditching some crap at a friend's place for 15 years and being welcomed with open arms when the time comes.

                    You have time to make the necessary changes. Most serious groups are more interested in these sorts of interactions than how much old crap you've ditched at the retreat. All that ends up being over time is trash for the landowner to have to haul away for you when you don't come for it...
                    www.homesteadingandsurvival.com

                    www.survivalreportpodcast.com

                    "Don't be too proud of this technological terror you've constructed..."

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                    • #11
                      Good stuff
                      Knowledge is Power, Practiced Knowledge is Strength, Tested Knowledge is Confidence

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                      • #12
                        This is a very timely thread as we are just now getting our house ready to go on the market next February so that we can purchase 5-10 acres a little further out so that we have the freedom to have larger gardens, some fruit trees, berries, chickens, etc. This will be challenging move, but well worth it when all is said and done.

                        SC
                        "Do not fear, for I am with you;
                        Do not anxiously look about you, for I am your God.
                        I will strengthen you, surely I will help you,
                        Surely I will uphold you with My righteous right hand." Isaiah 41:10

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                        • #13
                          Good to see you SC!
                          Boris- "He's famous, has picture on three dollar bill!"

                          Rocky- "Wow! I've never even seen a three dollar bill!"

                          Boris- "Is it my fault you're poor?"

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                          • #14
                            Thanks, it is good to be back. With our new direction of moving out onto a larger piece of land I am hoping to finally have something to contribute.

                            SC
                            "Do not fear, for I am with you;
                            Do not anxiously look about you, for I am your God.
                            I will strengthen you, surely I will help you,
                            Surely I will uphold you with My righteous right hand." Isaiah 41:10

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