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  • Interesting Article: 'Does confidence really breed success?'

    Does seem to explain a a fair bit;

    Research suggests that more and more American university students think they are something special. High self-esteem is generally regarded as a good thing - but could too much of it actually make you less successful?

    About nine million young people have filled out the American Freshman Survey, since it began in 1966.

    It asks students to rate how they measure up to their peers in a number of basic skills areas - and over the past four decades, there has been a dramatic rise in the number of students who describe themselves as being "above average" for academic ability, drive to achieve, mathematical ability and self-confidence.

    Twenge adds that while the Freshman Survey shows that students are increasingly likely to label themselves as gifted in writing ability, objective test scores indicate that actual writing ability has gone down since the 1960s.

    And while in the late 1980s, almost half of students said they studied for six or more hours a week, the figure was little over a third by 2009 - a fact that sits rather oddly, given there has been a rise in students' self-proclaimed drive to succeed during the same period.

    Another study by Twenge suggested there has been a 30% tilt towards narcissistic attitudes in US students since 1979
    http://www.bbc.co.uk/news/magazine-20756247
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    You know it is with the girl who thinks she is prettier than she really is or the guy who thinks he can sing better than he can because someone is always right there, usually family, pumping them up. Fortunately for me I have Grand, WO and LD3 who are quick to make fun of me and bring me back down to earth! LOL
    Knowledge is Power, Practiced Knowledge is Strength, Tested Knowledge is Confidence

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    • #3
      I think it is the movie star thing going on. Thank goodness I got rid of TV. It is the culture that has bred that we have to be so cool, the kid that is a super hero. The kung Fu master that kills people with pinkies, even though he has never done Kung Fu, but after 30 min worth of movie time where he trained and worked out and almost gave up. Good to go.

      We all should have our 15 min of fame. When I grow up I want to be famous

      Then we have to give them a 6th place trophy, because they are just as good as first place. We don't want to mess with the self-esteem. Please do not mention they should work harder, we know that the first place team is rigged against our precious Johnny, and has nothing to do with that he sucks.

      I think that is why if a Paw happens you will have some that will not be able to handle it and just lie down and die. See these bad things just are not allowed to happen, momma and daddy says so.

      Keep the Lambs in la la land so they will walk to the slaughter house.

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      • #4
        For the record I've never heard Matt sing nor do I ever want to imagine him in a party dress trying to look pretty.

        WHEW! Now that I have THAT out of the way.

        I tend to think this has created larger problems, not necessarily of a narcissistic attitude, but one of mediocrity being okay since it just as good to come in last place as it is first. Now I give all the props in the world to those that try their hardest and still finish last. That implies effort of someone's part. You gave your best effort and came up short? You at least tried and put forward a hundred percent. However, these days?

        There is no strive to improve or get better. No movement to increase output or to set the bar a little higher next time. No pushing the envelope just a little more. Sad part? I see more and more of it these days in the military. And the OP hits the nail on the head, it's okay to be average since we're all "special" since we showed up for the race. Didn't compete, but that's okay, you watched the race from the safety of the stands and you're still number one in our book.

        It's entitlement at it's finest when you don't have to do your best or get better to be rewarded. And with entitlement breeds the attitudes in our young people of "give me a cookie since I got Breathing 101 down pat and didn't pee down my zipper today. I'm special for doing that." It can be narcissistic in a way since "I got rewarded and I'm better than you." But it smacks more of entitlement mentality than anything since you are rewarded for doing nothing or as little as possible.
        Experience is a cruel teacher, gives the exam first and then the lesson.

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        • #5
          I think I can , I think I can, I think I can fit into some skinny jeans..........

          I sing like Bon Jovi, my friends tell me I can go on American Idol.




          This is why lots of people around here do not like me or my group of friends because we are the most criticizing, jonin', makin fun of, ball bustin guys. If you dont have realists around, the big heads keep getting bigger.
          You know what ol' Jack Burton always says at a time like this?

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