Everything can be replaced, a lot of things can be repaired. If your car gets trashed getting out of a mess like this, so be it.
We can SAY things like that, but if we aren't used to taking a chance here and there NOW, we will likely not take that chance later.
Friends that know me can tell sometimes when I'm sparring with them when I up the game a little bit. My nephew says "he gets that crazy look in his eyes and it's all over"- this from a 24 year old firefighter who drags tires down the beach for fun.
Kevin Reeve in his Escape and Evasion classes calls this "flipping the switch." I like that phrase.
For years I've talked about being able to make the "change" when the time comes, old blog entries with names like "Living in yesterday" talk about similar things.
When you make that wrong turn and your in the middle of a riot at the intersection of 187 Avenue and MLK drive, you have to "flip the switch." You have to be able to change instantly from law abiding straight laced citizen to crazed "I'll do whatever I need to do to get myself or my family out of here" person.
How can we "train" that response? I'm not sure I have a good answer for that?
Walk just a little bit on the "gray" line more. Fight more. Take more chances.
Forest Griffin was interviewed before a fight, odd guy but very practical. The commentator asked him what his "plan" was for the fight. His reply was simple- "I'm gonna go out there and he's gonna punch me in the face. That's good cause that will tell me I'm in a fight.." (not his exact words but you get the idea).
You have to first realize you are in a fight. The fight could very well be for your life.
If your worried that your SUV might get a scratch or your little car will get torn up jumping a curb (don't worry it won't, mine doesn't ;) , you'll die.
If your worried that capping someone who is rushing you with a bat will get you thrown in jail, you'll die. A good lawyer can get you out of just about anything- EXCEPT YOUR DEATH.
You may have to kill, you may have to steal to get out of the area. Those are hard concepts for us, but it may come down to that. A car you had to steal to get out of the area can be returned or dropped off somewhere, etc.
At Kevin's Urban E and E class he tells the story of a guy in Baghdad that was part of the currency exchange program. He was American but dressed like a hadji because of what they were doing. He rode in the back of a plain jane van filled with cash every day. The van broke down in the wrong place with a flat tire. The drivers said they could change the tire quickly. This guy KNEW that they would be under fire within a minute or so. They destroyed the cash and the guy walked out into traffic, produced an AK and stopped a taxi. He got in the back, held the muzzle to the back of the driver's head and told him where to drive.
When they got to a safe area, the guy was very apologetic and gave the driver a big pile of cash. The driver simply said "what time do I pick you up tomorrow?"
Thinking outside the box.
We can SAY things like that, but if we aren't used to taking a chance here and there NOW, we will likely not take that chance later.
Friends that know me can tell sometimes when I'm sparring with them when I up the game a little bit. My nephew says "he gets that crazy look in his eyes and it's all over"- this from a 24 year old firefighter who drags tires down the beach for fun.
Kevin Reeve in his Escape and Evasion classes calls this "flipping the switch." I like that phrase.
For years I've talked about being able to make the "change" when the time comes, old blog entries with names like "Living in yesterday" talk about similar things.
When you make that wrong turn and your in the middle of a riot at the intersection of 187 Avenue and MLK drive, you have to "flip the switch." You have to be able to change instantly from law abiding straight laced citizen to crazed "I'll do whatever I need to do to get myself or my family out of here" person.
How can we "train" that response? I'm not sure I have a good answer for that?
Walk just a little bit on the "gray" line more. Fight more. Take more chances.
Forest Griffin was interviewed before a fight, odd guy but very practical. The commentator asked him what his "plan" was for the fight. His reply was simple- "I'm gonna go out there and he's gonna punch me in the face. That's good cause that will tell me I'm in a fight.." (not his exact words but you get the idea).
You have to first realize you are in a fight. The fight could very well be for your life.
If your worried that your SUV might get a scratch or your little car will get torn up jumping a curb (don't worry it won't, mine doesn't ;) , you'll die.
If your worried that capping someone who is rushing you with a bat will get you thrown in jail, you'll die. A good lawyer can get you out of just about anything- EXCEPT YOUR DEATH.
You may have to kill, you may have to steal to get out of the area. Those are hard concepts for us, but it may come down to that. A car you had to steal to get out of the area can be returned or dropped off somewhere, etc.
At Kevin's Urban E and E class he tells the story of a guy in Baghdad that was part of the currency exchange program. He was American but dressed like a hadji because of what they were doing. He rode in the back of a plain jane van filled with cash every day. The van broke down in the wrong place with a flat tire. The drivers said they could change the tire quickly. This guy KNEW that they would be under fire within a minute or so. They destroyed the cash and the guy walked out into traffic, produced an AK and stopped a taxi. He got in the back, held the muzzle to the back of the driver's head and told him where to drive.
When they got to a safe area, the guy was very apologetic and gave the driver a big pile of cash. The driver simply said "what time do I pick you up tomorrow?"
Thinking outside the box.
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